Remembering To play
Children want nothing more than to have their parents' undivided attention, to giggle, role play, chase, read books, make stuff, and do a myriad of things together.
The most important word in the paragraph above is…together.
As a mother of adult children, I can recall our happiest times were in each other’s company. Our girls liked to put on stage shows for us. It was always a hoot! My husband, at my request, built a cubby house in the style of Little House on the Prairie, a favourite show of mine when I was a child, that I shared with our girls. He spent 80-plus hours building it. When it was put together on Christmas Eve, the base went in first. We told the girls it was a stage so that we could keep the remaining structure a secret. That night there was a full song & dance show. They loved the stage but didn’t really relate to the cubby house that I always wanted! When the rest of it was put in, they were confused. Sadly, a little while later it became the cutest-looking bike shed on the block.
In a world full of distractions and busy schedules, it’s often the simplest shared moments that children remember most. Whether it’s reading together, creating imaginative games, or simply being present, connection is built through everyday experiences. Many parents also find that emotional support and guidance can help create a calmer, more connected home environment for the whole family. If you’re looking for additional support, practical resources, or a more holistic approach to family wellbeing, visit the Holistic Parental Support page to learn more.
Children want nothing more than to have their parents' undivided attention.
